Namely, how does my virginal heroine have even the slightest clue what to do when it comes to sexytimes with the hero?
Unlike me, my heroine did not have her mother’s naughty paperbacks lying around; nor did she likely talk sex with anyone–she grew up in a vicarage with her father and brother. It would be a very different kind of book if she actually talked sex with either of them. But I am not Eloisa James, and can not write a deliberately bad sex scene, where one or more of the participants has no idea what to do.
How can I give her knowledge without making her a total anomaly?
All suggestions welcome!